First things first, the funeral was nice and I think my Grandmother would have been happy about it. Many thanks again to all those who looked out for a brotha in various capacities. Special thanks to the homie ACG for her role, and also H for the beautiful arrangement.

So moving along….

I’m learning slowly but surely to bite my tongue (or my fingers) when it comes to venting here. To borrow from the Soprano siblings, Tony and Janice, “There is alot that I could say that I’m not going to say!” Suffice it to say, the old Cal would be embroiled in some shit that honestly ain’t my business right now. But I’m learning to balance my “fiercely loyal” with the best interests of people I care about. For now I can privately seethe…..right?